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Lucy Grealy suffered in more ways than one in her lifetime. Grealy experienced an Ewing’s sarcoma from an early age, died from a heroin overdose, and suffered from another cancer itself: her repugnant personality. Grealy’s noxious behavior has been feeding off of her like a parasite, making her an intolerable person. Her cancerous attitude has harmed the way she develops relationships with others. Grealy is portrayed as giving and lonely, but the real Lucy Grealy is whiny and cynical.
Grealy’s personality is whiny, as first portrayed by former roommate and author Ann Patchett. In Patchett’s book, Truth and Beauty, she outlines the toxic relationship between Patchett and Grealy. Patchett chronicles Grealy’s whiny behavior when describing how inconvenient Grealy’s life seemed: she felt lonely because her boyfriend ‘hated’ her, she had no money, and she was stuck in the friend zone with a different man. Patchett depicted Grealy’s complaints as loud and abiding, “but they were basically the complaints of every other woman I knew” (Patchett 52). The way that Patchett describes Grealy’s complaints makes the reader think that Grealy thinks she is special. This is obviously false, due to the fact that Grealy’s complaints are strikingly similar to any other woman Patchett knew. Another paradigm of Grealy’s whining and disagreeable attitude from Truth and Beauty is when Patchett started dating a poet, Mark. Grealy immediately gets jealous like a child. Patchett then goes on to explain that Grealy “called three or four times a day with the sole purpose of reminding” Patchett that although Grealy at the time was still her best friend, Patchett “was ruining her life” (Patchett 107). Calling anyone three or four times a day is excessive. Grealy’s ultimate motive to calling Patchett during this time period is most likely to get Patchett to break up with her poet boyfriend due to Grealy’s jealousy. Grealy is jealous of Mark because he was a poet, and she believed that there could only be one poet in Patchett’s life. Grealy’s whining about Patchett ruining her life is unjustified.
Lucy Grealy is also extremely cynical. In her autobiography, Autobiography of a Face, Grealy outlines her childhood with her malignancy. Grealy received letters from across the country, but she and her family would laugh with a “bitter, cynical air” and “mocked them out loud” (Grealy 98). From a young age, Grealy has been taught by her family that it was acceptable to be cynical towards others when they were trying to show sympathy for Grealy and her family. Grealy’s cynical behavior has obviously cumulated from a young age, with her family as the prime example. Grealy herself has also noticed her cynicism. In a letter to Patchett, Grealy says that she is “such a cynic most of the time” (Patchett 95). Patchett later states that Grealy had depicted cynicism as “a symptom of inflated ego” (Patchett 97). Grealy has openly stated herself that she is cynical, but she also said that it is a sign of feeling self-righteous. This validates that Grealy is cynical, but it also states that Grealy believes she has an inflated ego, in her own hypocritical words.
Grealy could be portrayed as giving by others. To Patchett, Grealy was her best friend. Patchett describes in Truth and Beauty the readings of one of Patchett’s books and Grealy’s autobiography. Grealy was hitting the height of her commercial success through her autobiography, while Patchett started nearly at rock bottom popularity wise. Their publicist combined their reading dates to gain publicity for Patchett’s book. Patchett depicts Grealy as lending her “the brilliance of her light in a moment when thing were looking decidedly dull” for Patchett (Patchett 139). But Patchett explains that they both had lent each other light over the years, “depending on which of us had more light to share” (Patchett 140). These are seen as simple gestures to each other, as is not seen as a mandatory move for Grealy. It was also suggested by the publicist, not Grealy.
Others have also attempted to justify Grealy’s actions because she was alone. Patchett delineates Grealy’s loneliness as “breathtaking in its enormity” (Patchett 171). Patchett went on to state that thousands had loved and adored Grealy throughout her life, especially when she rose to fame after her autobiography. Patchett claimed that all of her admirers were not “enough to take up every square inch of her loneliness” (Patchett 171). Although Grealy feels alone internally, in reality, she has thousands upon thousands of people supporting her as her backbone. There is simply no valid explanation for why Grealy feels alone.
Grealy is a parasite to herself. She continually tortures herself with her horrendous attitude and ulterior motives. Her irritable character is cancerous to herself and others, because it harms her relationships with others. Although Grealy is seen as giving and alone, in reality, Lucy Grealy is whiny and cynical.